I know for a fact how awkward and uncomfortable this can be. I too thought i was "being open and honest" when asked by my now husband about my past only to find our "numbers" varied greatly...to be fair, our relationship started as a "friends-w/benefits" agreement, so if you were to conclude that made me an adventurous young woman determined to find out what she liked before "settling down", thank you, that's what i thought also.
BUT, if you conversely came to the conclusion that i was a slut...(maybe both are true)....my hubs would probably feel justified in his shock(horror?idk)
Who are you serving by sharing this info? What could it solve? If you were safe, or at least didn't bring any baggage from the past relations in the form of medical/health issues and/or unresolved trauma, is it even relevant to your current relationship?
Ash, Babe, you hit the nail on the head again! Another great piece.....
I know for a fact how awkward and uncomfortable this can be. I too thought i was "being open and honest" when asked by my now husband about my past only to find our "numbers" varied greatly...to be fair, our relationship started as a "friends-w/benefits" agreement, so if you were to conclude that made me an adventurous young woman determined to find out what she liked before "settling down", thank you, that's what i thought also.
BUT, if you conversely came to the conclusion that i was a slut...(maybe both are true)....my hubs would probably feel justified in his shock(horror?idk)
Who are you serving by sharing this info? What could it solve? If you were safe, or at least didn't bring any baggage from the past relations in the form of medical/health issues and/or unresolved trauma, is it even relevant to your current relationship?
Ash, Babe, you hit the nail on the head again! Another great piece.....