I try to take the fun approach, dare I say being "serious about having fun" which I think is slightly different. I am not activing looking for a life time commitment but in the act of having fun if it develops into that cool. I also am not looking for hooking up with as many females I can. If i "click" with someone cool...but i have no predetermined design that i am seatching for ms right for the rest of my life. Dating to me is a process. I chose to make that process fun as opposed to a task or a job. Of course it is a process with no predetermined completion or "product"... It my reply makes no sense its because I having finished my dunkin coffee yet.
I think it’s biological. Men tend to separate emotions from sex more than women. And I don’t think it’s embarrassing any more than it’s embarrassing for women to catch feelings. Understanding what makes us tick is part of the human experience. And if we do not embody gender stereotypes- the man who needs to be in love before sex or the woman who prefers casual sex - that’s okay, too. Just wrote about this, actually: https://open.substack.com/pub/evanmarckatz/p/do-men-want-more-sex-than-women?r=5xgs2&utm_medium=ios&utm_campaign=post
Casual sex usually sounds like a good idea, except studies show that women often develop feelings and have regrets. Like communism, it’s better in theory than in practice.
I try to take the fun approach, dare I say being "serious about having fun" which I think is slightly different. I am not activing looking for a life time commitment but in the act of having fun if it develops into that cool. I also am not looking for hooking up with as many females I can. If i "click" with someone cool...but i have no predetermined design that i am seatching for ms right for the rest of my life. Dating to me is a process. I chose to make that process fun as opposed to a task or a job. Of course it is a process with no predetermined completion or "product"... It my reply makes no sense its because I having finished my dunkin coffee yet.
I think it’s biological. Men tend to separate emotions from sex more than women. And I don’t think it’s embarrassing any more than it’s embarrassing for women to catch feelings. Understanding what makes us tick is part of the human experience. And if we do not embody gender stereotypes- the man who needs to be in love before sex or the woman who prefers casual sex - that’s okay, too. Just wrote about this, actually: https://open.substack.com/pub/evanmarckatz/p/do-men-want-more-sex-than-women?r=5xgs2&utm_medium=ios&utm_campaign=post
Appreciate your share 😊
Casual sex usually sounds like a good idea, except studies show that women often develop feelings and have regrets. Like communism, it’s better in theory than in practice.