a majority of women have learned about their bodies & pleasure by way of another person's hands, wants; by listening to the needs of others; by doing what she has been told & is expected. Like in life
OMGoddess!! This!!! It's flucking brilliant! Self-pleasure is so tied up with women's conditioning to put themselves last. The woman who historically made the food, set the table, served her family then sat and ate in the kitchen after everyone else had finished. It's no wonder with history like that and the conflicting flucking messages women get now, they are out of touch with their desires. I love this so much, Ashley!
Very good piece. Over three years ago I stopped drinking booze, studied to be a yoga instructor (I'll never tecach yoga BTW) and started my journey to knowing myself, developing my 'inner resource.' I am currently awakening to how much sex I have had in my life 'for the man' and how I measured myself on my ability to be multi orgasmic, come from penetration kinda cool chic. I am shaking my head yet only want to be compassionate with myself that I, someone I thought knew better, prioritised how men saw me, over my own fulfillment. I've had thoughtful lovers and really good times too, but the brainwashed younger me, I'd love to hug her and give her another chance. I've swapped Saturday nights in the pub for a self love marathon. As I mentioned in my last comment, 9 orgasms in a row is a record for me and yes, yes, yes each one increased with intensity. Thank you for your work, I'll keep going, or coming 😉
OMGoddess!! This!!! It's flucking brilliant! Self-pleasure is so tied up with women's conditioning to put themselves last. The woman who historically made the food, set the table, served her family then sat and ate in the kitchen after everyone else had finished. It's no wonder with history like that and the conflicting flucking messages women get now, they are out of touch with their desires. I love this so much, Ashley!
Very good piece. Over three years ago I stopped drinking booze, studied to be a yoga instructor (I'll never tecach yoga BTW) and started my journey to knowing myself, developing my 'inner resource.' I am currently awakening to how much sex I have had in my life 'for the man' and how I measured myself on my ability to be multi orgasmic, come from penetration kinda cool chic. I am shaking my head yet only want to be compassionate with myself that I, someone I thought knew better, prioritised how men saw me, over my own fulfillment. I've had thoughtful lovers and really good times too, but the brainwashed younger me, I'd love to hug her and give her another chance. I've swapped Saturday nights in the pub for a self love marathon. As I mentioned in my last comment, 9 orgasms in a row is a record for me and yes, yes, yes each one increased with intensity. Thank you for your work, I'll keep going, or coming 😉
Fuck ya Ash. I find myself energized by this take. Also in the process of shedding my socialized self. :)
Thank you Tolly!
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