Let’s face it; Midlife Unf*cking Midlife? Because the truth is, midlife can feel like a shit show, and I’m not just talking about the hormones. You’re navigating a world that’s told you to slow down just as you’re figuring out how to take up space. Maybe you’re starting to ask: What the hell is next for me? Or better yet: Who am I now?
At Unf*cking Midlife, I’m here to answer those questions and offer something you won’t find elsewhere—real, unfiltered talk about how to thrive during the second half of life. It's not the same tired advice about aging gracefully. It’s about owning your evolution, embracing where you are, and rewriting the script on what it means to grow older.
What will you get as a paid subscriber? Deep dives into topics like:
Authentic Stories: Real-life experiences that resonate and remind you you’re not alone.
Practical Advice: Tips and strategies to navigate the physical, emotional, and mental changes of midlife.
Inspiration and Motivation: Encouragement to embrace this phase with a positive mindset.
Community: A supportive space where you can share, learn, and grow with others.
Unsolicited Advice: Everything from self-regulation to dating and sex in beyond your 40’s (spoiler: it does get better).
Plus, personal stories that aren’t just here to entertain—they’re here to make you feel less alone in navigating your own transformation.
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Here’s what people are saying…
Personal storytelling, achingly candid, with life lessons to be learned. Deece// Life It’s Own Self
Tribeza’s dating and romance columnist Ashley Kelsch always offers a thoughtful and funny outlook when it comes to life and relationships, but this piece in particular stands out to me as one of our most compelling stories of the year. Detailing her unconventional parenting situation and family structure, Kelsch offers a valuable perspective on accepting the unpredictable things life throws at you and making difficult choices to benefit your loved ones. The story differs from our usual content, but still presents a look at the fascinating people and experiences that make up Austin. — Meher Qazilbash, Digital Editor Tribeza Magazine
Insightful and human, these are honest reflections about life, particularly midlife (though the words contained in this Substack don't discriminate—they apply to anyone of any age). Ashley's essays are always a phenomenal read. Joe Duncan// The Science of Sex
You have an amazing gift of articulating complex emotions. This essay surely touches mine. Thank you! I adore this! a reader
Love your writing my dear friend. It’s like our convos come to life. Josh Swanson// ANONYMOUS
More About Ash
Currently pressing pause to make sense of the last 40+ years, what her hormones are doing and figuring out how to move forward when society is telling her it's too late. All the while acknowledging that none of this is original—but it does feels personal.
She was the founder of Teddies for Bettys, a lingerie & sexual wellness shop in Austin TX, turned dating & relationship columnist & coach, who now spends her time writing about and coaching people how to Unf*ck Midlife.
