Unfucking Midlife

Unfucking Midlife

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When you find out your partner is cheating and the other woman doesn't know

A reader asks for advice while their group of friends grapple with what the 'right thing' to do is

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Ashley Kelsch
Dec 04, 2022
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“My friend has been dating someone v v seriously in Austin for ages- she just found out that in the summer he started cheating on her. We know people who know the other woman. The woman he is cheating on her with does not know he is currently in a relationship and believes him to be single. 

Do we keep it to ourselves? Do we let her know? We know she doesn’t currently know. My friend wants to do the feminist thing by letting her know…”

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Grappling with doing what’s right

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