I won’t pretend to know what it feels like to pull at the thread of a decades-long marriage. I do know the fear of revealing what I’m really thinking and how it might disrupt the lives of others.
I feel this. My marriage was over for 4 years before it was over and I couldn’t tell a soul. It was the hardest most mentally taxing 4 years of my life.
Thank you. I haven’t and never plan to again. Getting back to living an honest transparent life has been so freeing. I’m writing about that time in my life and as I’m getting to this part where I lived in a lie I’m finding myself lose motivation to write. I’ve been avoiding it. I’m realizing that I obviously have more healing to do even a decade later. Your post really spoke to me. Thank you.
I love this so much: You’re Only as Sick as Your Secret.
The truth really does set us free. It’s fucking hard and complex in many ways, and pure clean, simplicity in others. Can relate, as a fellow truth teller and truth seeker.
I feel this. My marriage was over for 4 years before it was over and I couldn’t tell a soul. It was the hardest most mentally taxing 4 years of my life.
Hopefully you’ll never have to carry the weight of something like that alone again 🙏
Thank you. I haven’t and never plan to again. Getting back to living an honest transparent life has been so freeing. I’m writing about that time in my life and as I’m getting to this part where I lived in a lie I’m finding myself lose motivation to write. I’ve been avoiding it. I’m realizing that I obviously have more healing to do even a decade later. Your post really spoke to me. Thank you.
I love this so much: You’re Only as Sick as Your Secret.
The truth really does set us free. It’s fucking hard and complex in many ways, and pure clean, simplicity in others. Can relate, as a fellow truth teller and truth seeker.
Thank you! And I agree wholeheartedly; fucking hard and complex // pure clean simplicity in others. The beauty in telling and seeking!!