Mar 3 • 27M

Ep 3 Miserable on a date but can't leave?

Rather than experiencing an hour of misery, try this...

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Ashley Kelsch
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I was recently out by myself having dinner and happened to be next to a man and woman on a date. It became glaringly clear that she didn’t want to be there, but didn’t have the nerve to leave until they had finished eating.

We’ve all been there. Maybe we forget that we have agency and can leave if we feel like it. Or maybe the idea of leaving sounds rude or impossible. So we ‘stick it out’…

On todays episode I am offering you some advice on how to change your experience from miserable to pleasurable.


Yes, it’s possible. You just have to do one thing…

I’m also giving you 2 ideas to spark some fun conversation and get to know the other person across from you. I think they are brilliant and one of them has already been proven to work on a date!

But first, a ‘not your dating guru’ moment from yours truly.




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